Nov 26, 2008

Service...With A Smile!

Posted by with 1 comment
This past Thursday our Scouts did a Thanksgiving Themed Food Drive for Pack Meeting. The boys and their families, plus us leaders divided up the streets and collected the food.

I hate to admit this, but I did NOT want to do this at all. In our planning meeting I was trying everything I could to find an excuse to not do a food drive. I didn't want to keep track of x amount of boys running up and down the streets, yada, yada, yada. I also didn't want to have to take my baby out in the cold that long or to keep track of Lex. Plus, I knew that Eric would be "overjoyed" to participate.

Well I pretty much got shot down and the food drive is what was decided upon. The day of the food drive I was getting really stressed out. Tanis had a book report due the next day and we hadn't yet finished the book, so we had to finish the book and then we still had to put the book report together (More on that in a later post).

It was about 6:00 and we had to be at the meeting place at 6:30. I hurried to get a bag together for the little boys to go with Eric. We decided that Eric would go hang out with some friends while I took the older two kids with me. Remember I did NOT want my baby out in the cold for that long - I should mention it's because he's had a bad cold and I didn't want to make it worse.

So we finally finish up Tanis' book report around 6:15 and hurried to get ourselves presentable and headed over to the place we were meeting. I was still a bit stressed out and not looking forward to the night, but whatever.

We arrive at the place and not a lot of people have shown up yet, so that eased some of the stress I was having. Eventually six families show up so we have the usual Presentation of the Colors and the boys did a cute little skit before we headed out.

There are 3 streets in our ward area, so 2 boys and families were sent to each street. Tanis and his friend Taylor ended up going with me and another set of leaders to our street. At our street we divided up yet again to have each scout do one side of the street. Tanis ended up with the other leader and Taylor with me (still not sure how that happened).

I will tell you that by the 3rd or 4th house, my attitude changed. About halfway down the street one of the other Scout leaders came by in his pickup to empty the food out of our little wagons so we could have room for the rest of the food.

I was overwhelmed to see that the truck was already almost half full and we had only gotten halfway down the street. We completed our side of the street and started up the other side of the street as Tanis and the leader he was with weren't quite as far down as we had gotten.

We made sure we had the scouts go to the doors to collect the food and explain what we were doing in case the people had missed the notes we had passed out. It was fun to see Tanis get over being shy and explain what was going on. He still had all the quirks people do when they are shy and talking to people, but he did it and that was cool.

After we finished our street we headed back to the home where we started for cookies and hot chocolate. It was so very interesting to see how much food was collected. The food filled up the back of the pick up and I was so very impressed. (I blurred the boys' faces so that no parents would be offended, hopefully)


Now, we could have left it at that, but on Monday the Scouts delivered Thank-Yous to each of the houses in the area. One of the scouts moms was smart enough to think to make the thank-yous.

I also had the opportunity, last night, to help sort through the food with a few other ladies in the Relief Society. I don't usually get to do the service type things because of Eric's delivery job, so when the opportunity presented itself on a night Eric would be home I had to do it.

It was amazing to actually see how much food there was. We had 14 families to take the food to and each of them got roughly the same amount of items and then a bunch of extra items. (I should mention that us R.S. ladies didn't take the food to the families, the bishopric took care of that.) It is so great to see how a little bit from everyone can go a long way.

I've always heard that service makes you feel better and all that you usually hear about it. But, I've never really experienced it quite the way I did this time around. I am so very thankful I had the opportunity and that it was able to change my whole outlook on the day.

Nov 21, 2008

How Old Am I?

Posted by with 2 comments
So last Sunday, the 16th was my birthday. We had a great dinner at Eric's parents house and an even better birthday cake. Okay, so maybe the cake wasn't better than the food, it was just all good.

Anyway a couple months ago, my friend Marisa, posted her 29 favorites on her birthday, and I decided it was something I would copy. Because that's just how I work. So here you have it 29 of my favorites - for those who want to know. (Thanks again for the idea, Marisa)

1. Movie: I really don't have a favorite, can you believe that?

2. Soda: Anything fruity, usually Sunkist, though
3. Color: Purple, Yellow and Pink - In that order

4. Cake: Jello Cake used to take the cake, but since my MIL made an ice cream cake for my bday, it is the new winner!
5. Breakfast: Waffles
6. Sandwich: Turkey & Cheese

7. Sport to Play: Softball
8. Sport to Watch: Baseball
9. College Team: I should say BYU, so I don't get kicked out of the family, but honestly I just don't care.

10. Song: At the moment it would have to be "Around the World," but give it a few days and I'll have a new fave.
11. Book: Anything by Jodi Picoult

12. Period in History: Probably the Rennaisance (sp?)
13. Room in Our House: Anywhere Quiet
14. Place ever Visited: South Dakota
15. Dream Car: Another thing I don't have...
16. Car ever Driven: My current car - Suzuki XL-7

17. Summer Pasttime: Camping
18. Winter Pasttime: Playing in the Snow

19. Family Activity: Any type of Outing
20. Video Game: American Idol, Guitar Hero & Rock Band
21. Way to Relax: Bubble Bath
22. Way to Kill Time: MySpace, Facebook and Blogs

23. Obligatory Work Activity: Vacumning
24. Restaurant: Olive Garden

25. Thing I've Made: Calendar Scrapbooks for my Grandma's
26. Musical: Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat

27. Article of Clothing: My Jeans
28. Thing about My Husband: That he ALWAYS checks with me first before making plans
29. Thing about Me: That I am not very judgemental and am always willing to think of why people may act the way they do before making assumptions. (I do sometimes slip-up though)

And there you have it. 29 of my favorite things. And here's a quick little story for you on how I got my name.

So in the 70's my parents were fans of an artist named Neil Diamond. He sang a song entitled, "Shilo." Ever since my parents heard the song and the whole time I was growing up we thought that the "Shilo" mentioned in the song was a girl. However, I just recently found out that "Shilo" is actually a male.

My world came crashing down the day I found that out. Ah well - not much I can do now, except for maybe changing my name...But who wants the hassle of that? And besides, I've grown kind of fond of my name and it's originality!

And because I like to ramble, here is a vid of "Shilo" and the lyrics.




Young child with dreams
Dream every dream on your own
When children play
Seems like you end up alone

Papa says he'd love to be with you
If he had the time
So you turn to the only friend you can find
There in your mind

Shilo when I was young
I used to call your name
When no one else would come
Shilo you always came
And we'd play

Young girl with fire
Something said she understood
I wanted to fly
She made me feel like I could
Held my hand and I let her take me
Blind as a child
All I saw was the way that she made me smile
She made me smile

Shilo when I was young
I used to call your name
When no one else would come
Shilo you always came
And you'd stay

Had a dream and it filled me with wonder
She had other plans
Got to go and I know that you'll understand
I understand

Shilo when I was young
I used to call your name
When no one else would come
Shilo you always came
Come today

Shilo....Shilo....

Nov 19, 2008

Eleanor Rigby

Posted by with 1 comment
So because Eric is playing his video game, and I don't feel like playing - I thought I would do this. I got this in an email, but didn't want to stuff everyones email with it, so I am doing here...

I also tag anyone else as bored as I am...

1. Put your iPod on shuffle.
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.
3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS!
4. Tag 10 friends who might enjoy doing the meme as well as the person you got the meme from.

IF SOMEONE SAYS "IS THIS OKAY" YOU SAY?
"My Immortal" - Evanescence ~ Sounds like a way to blow someone off...

WHAT WOULD BEST DESCRIBE YOUR PERSONALITY?
"New Beginning" - Shannon Noll ~ Guess this fits...

WHAT DO YOU LIKE IN A GUY/GIRL?
"Different Drum" - Me First and the Gimme Gimmes ~ That's right I like guys that are different than me!

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE'S PURPOSE?
"Our House" - Not Sure of Artist ~ My life's purpose is to make my home the same as the one I grew up in...

WHAT IS YOUR MOTTO?
"Nuclear" - Ryan Adams ~ Sweet...I think I just found a new saying...

WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOU?
"Truly, Madly, Deeply" - Savage Garden ~ Awww, that makes me happy. :D

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN?
"Lost In Your Eyes" - Debbie Gibson ~ What can I say, I am an eye person!

WHAT IS 2+2?
"Cry" - Mandy Moore ~ That's about right, I HATE MATH!

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR BEST FRIEND(S)?
"Smooth" - Santana Feat. Rob Thomas ~ That's about right! My best friend is smooth!

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
"Promises" - Shannon Noll ~ Isn't that fitting?

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE STORY?
"Rubbin' It In" - Chely Wright ~ That's right, would you all stop rubbin' it in?

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?
"Coming Out Of the Dark" - Gloria Estefan ~ Look at it this way, I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up so it would be nice to be outta the dark about it.

WHAT DO YOU THINK WHEN YOU SEE THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
"Me Too" - Toby Keith ~ Another fitting answer

WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS THINK OF YOU?
"What I Really Meant to Say" - Cyndi Thomson ~ Okay then. Guess there are some unspoken words...

WHAT WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING?
"Sweet Dreams" - Eurythmics ~ Okay, what kinda wedding am I having?

WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL?
"Hurt" - Christina Aguilera ~ This just makes me sad...Guess it kinda works for a funeral though?

WHAT IS YOUR HOBBY/INTEREST?
"Reflection" - Christina Aguilera ~ Guess I spend too much time thinking about this stuff!

WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST SECRET?
"Hero" - Mariah Carey ~ Ooops, you all know the secret now - I am a superhero. YES!

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR FRIENDS?
"No Need to Argue" - The Cranberries ~ Wow, I can't say how true this song is for so much that has been going on lately...

WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT COULD HAPPEN?
"Somebody Told Me" - The Killers ~ Yes, I think having someone tell you something you'd rather not hear would be a really bad thing...

HOW WILL YOU DIE?
"Gettin' Jiggy With It" - Will Smith ~ Hilarious! At least I go having a good time! And for all you thinking naughty thoughts, Will has said the song means being stylin', not anything else that you may be thinking! Hey I just figured it out, I'm gonna kill myself in my new boots! Ah, but they are so worth it...

WHAT IS THE ONE THING YOU REGRET?
"Once In A Lifetime" - Keith Urban ~ Too true. There are many things I regret doing that have been once in a lifetime experiences...

WHAT MAKES YOU LAUGH?
"Changes" - Butterfly Boucher ~ I guess, kinda...

WHAT MAKES YOU CRY?
"All Out of Love" - Donny Osmond ~ I will admit there has been times this song has brought tears to my eyes...

WILL YOU EVER GET MARRIED?
"All I've Ever Wanted" - Mariah Carey ~ Well there you go!

WHAT SCARES YOU THE MOST?
"Don't Shut Me Out" - Keith Urban ~ This too rings true. I hate the silent treatment from anyone...

DOES ANYONE LIKE YOU?
"Everybody Hates Me" - Tim McGraw ~ How do you like that answer?

IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME, WHAT WOULD YOU CHANGE?
"Buy Me A Rose" - Kenny Rogers ~ Okay, well I guess someone forgot to buy me a rose...

WHAT HURTS RIGHT NOW?
"The Nervous Breakdown" - Brad Paisley ~ No, I'm not really having one, I don't think, am I, am I????

WHAT WILL YOU POST THIS AS?
"Eleanor Rigby" - The Beatles

Creativity is Flowing...

Posted by with No comments
Saturday I received a birthday card from my grandma and wanted to send her a thank-you. I didn't want to send her some generic, run of the mill card, so while Eric was at work I got busy and came up with the following card. And to be honest, I just took an idea off of a Stampin' Up idea sheet from some time last year and made it my own.


On Sunday afternoon, we worked on Shaylyn's book report. (Don't get me started on the whole thing of 1st graders having book reports and my 3rd grader having one monthly...) Anyway, I sketched the guy for Shaylyn, but she made the little "monsters" that are attached to him.


The book she read was called, "Hershel and the Hanukkah Goblins." It was a really cute story and I was so happy when she decided, on her own, to add a few of the goblins. While I hate the fact that my 1st grader had a book report, it was right up her alley and she spent a good hour or so working on it.

And if these projects weren't enough, there are a few more in the works - coming in the next few days or weeks.

Nov 18, 2008

Boondocks

Posted by with No comments
So there were way too many pictures to just post, so I made a quick little video of them all. I hope you all enjoy!


Nov 15, 2008

Lexism #2

Posted by with 1 comment
Lex did it again....This time he said something really hilarious though...


TANIS: Can I play outside?

ERIC: No because Mom is going to be going somewhere, and I have to go to work and we just need to know where everyone is.

TANIS: Where is Mom going?

SHILO: Just down the street.

LEX: Who's going to watch us?

SHILO: Your father.

LEX: Which father????


This was just too funny not to share....And as a teaser the following pic from Boondocks. This is just one picture Eric's mom emailed me. We are heading there tomorrow and I plan to get all the pics I can and share the cutest ones.
Posted in

Bragging Rights

Posted by with No comments
So, I have these two little nephews. Yes, believe it or not I only have two nephews and no nieces...

Both of these boys have blonde hair and blue eyes, but aren't related to each other.

They are both the cutest boys ever and I love having them as nephews.

However, one nephew lives out of state and we don't get to see him very often. But, the other nephew only lives about an hour away and his mom (my little sis) is willing to drive out quite a bit to see us. Friday was one of those nights.

My little sister is addicted to her cell phone (sorry, sis - it's true) and has a crap load of songs on it. Her little boy loves to listen to the music that she plays on her phone and it's always hilarious to see what my nephew will end up doing.

Friday night he decided to sing along to the chorus - it was too cute to not record and share. Pay attention to the cute blonde kid (why can't I have any blondies?). My kids are just being their wild selfs - pay no mind to them.




And for anyone who doesn't know, (I didn't) the song is called, "Around the World (La la la la la)" by ATC or A Touch of Class.

Nov 11, 2008

A Lexism

Posted by with 1 comment

I forgot to post this yesterday, but really wanted to share. This was a moment where Alexander put me in my place.

How I am remembering it at 7 in the morning, the day after the fact, is beyond me...

So this happened yesterday as we were leaving the grocery store and because it was so cold and rainy, I said the following:

ME: Who said we could have winter?
LEX: Jesus.

There was no pause or anything thinking of his answer, he just blurted it right out...Guess I should be more careful as to who I say things to....
Posted in

Nov 10, 2008

Guess Who's Missing?

Posted by with 2 comments
If you guessed Eric, you are right.


On Friday he found out he would be heading to D.C., again, on Sunday.

Eric works with a company that does some contract work for the Department of Defense. So the last time he was called out there it was to test some servers for some errors and then correct the errors. We all know how things went that time around and I thought all was well.

Well Friday morning he finds out that the Department of Defense guy that was the "witness" to what they did on the server - stepped down. Apparently his wife was diagnosed with terminal cancer and he wanted to be with her or whatever.

So, Eric had to leave to go to all the tests again in front of the new guy so that he knew what was going on.

I am sad to say that even though I knew why Eric had to go out there again, I was ticked. Partly because I was afraid of a longer trip than originally planned. And guess what, I just found out that instead of him being home Tuesday, he won't be home until Thursday.

Anyway Eric and I got into this argument about it and why I was so upset. During the course of the argument I told him that he had it easy. (For the most part, he only has to work until 4 and the rest of the time is his to do as he pleases. Me, I have 4 little bosses demanding something almost every minute)

Eric then said one thing that really made me stop and think. He said, "I would love to be able to stay home and snuggle with the kids."

Staying home is something I take for granted way too much. I don't usually take the time to think of how blessed I am to be home for my kids and to watch them learn and grow. It is something I have to constantly remind myself of. It is a blessing and not a curse.

Anyway, so Sunday came and Eric left early in the morning. I debated about going to church by myself with the 4 kids, but knew it was where I was supposed to be, so headed out. Halfway through Sacrament meeting, I was wondering why I was there. (Sorry again, Balls & Hackings) The kids do not behave real well unless Eric is there and I didn't have a lot of free arms as Nathaniel needed attention. So what do I do? Let the baby scream his head off or wrestle with the 3 older kids who know better? Neither one is real reverent...I was at a loss.

We make it through Sacrament meeting and the kids head to Primary and I head to Sunday School & Relief Society.

The lesson in Sunday School kinda went in one ear and out the other except for one quote that just floored me. It is as follows:

"Love is a potent healer. Realizing that, Satan would separate you from the power of the love of God, kindred, and friends, who want to help. He would lead you to feel that the walls are pressing in around you and there is no escape or relief. He wants you to believe you lack the capacity to help yourself and that no one else is really interested. If he succeeds, you will be driven to further despair and heartache. His strategy is to have you think you are not appreciated, loved, or wanted so that you in despair will turn to self-critisism and in the extreme even to despising yourself and feeling evil when you are not."

- Richard G. Scott

In Relief Society the lesson was about the letters Joseph Smith wrote to Emma while he was away. Joseph Smith was away quite a bit and left his wife and little family a lot. It was brought out that we are kind of lucky to live in such a technological age but at the same time it's kind of sad because the art of writing letters is lost.

This lesson hit me hard. How lucky am I that I can chat with my husband or even video chat with him while he is away. I don't have to wait weeks for a letter to hear how he was on Sunday and so forth.

In short, I am so thankful I actually went to church on Sunday and for the lessons that were presented. It was kind of the kick in the pants that I needed. Quit feeling sorry for myself and realize that I really don't have it as bad as I like to make it out to be.

Nov 5, 2008

Feelin' A Wee Bit Creative...Again

Posted by with 2 comments
So there is this show that plays on Nick Jr. that my kids like to watch. It is called Ni Hao, Kai-Lan. It is about a Chinese American girl and all the adventures she has with her friends and the lessons she learns.
Anyway the other day Lex was watching it while I was cleaning the house and I thought that I would try to do Shaylyn's hair like Kai-Lan's.

So yesterday, I tried it. It turned out really cute, but by the end of the day it was a mess. If I do it again I would pin down the "buns" a little more. Live and Learn.

Perhaps I will just stick to following all the other "hair blogs" out there. :D

Nov 1, 2008

Feeling Inspired

Posted by with 2 comments
So today I had a family baby shower to attend.

The day I received the invite, I had been getting stuff ready for the Preschool using my Cricut and I just happened to be using a cute teddy bear.

So when I saw this invite (yes, I erased vital info):


And just so I don't get in trouble about any copyrights or anything, apparently the invite was done by a company called Tiny Prints. Check out the website at www.tinyprints.com.

I knew exactly how I wanted to make the card (if I got time to do so). Well this morning I had about an hour before I needed to leave and decided I would make the card. This is how it turned out:
Not as great as I imagined in my head, but it was cute enough.

Happy Halloween

Posted by with 1 comment
Halloween is one of my favorite holidays. I like to say that I am basically happy from October to Mid January because all my fave holidays are in that time frame.

It's one of those things I can't explain why I enjoy it so much, especially since my mother hates it. Go figure...

I was getting excited to see all the cute kids in their costumes as Thursday I got a sneak peek with the Preschool kids and then that night at the Halloween carnival.

So around noon on Friday, the little boys and I head to the school for the Halloween Parade. We had to wait for a bit before the parade started, so I took a picture of my boys.


We waited and waited and waited...Finally the parade started and we waited for Tanis & Shaylyn to come through. I wasn't seeing either kid and then I heard a familiar voice call, "Mom!" I looked and saw Tanis just as his class was leaving - I have no idea how I missed him.

We waited some more to see Shaylyn and she just never came through. The parade was over and I didn't see Shaylyn's class at all! So I went down the hall and pulled her out of her class for a moment to get a picture. I then went down to Tanis' class and did the same with him.

I am going to go off on a tangent here, so if you don't feel like reading this part - feel free to skip to the next paragraph or two...

Friday morning, while I was still lying in bed and the kids were getting up I heard Shaylyn crying and saying something to the effect of she wasn't going to be able to be in the parade. I wasn't sure I heard her right and just shook it off. Then before she left for school she told me her teacher said they weren't going to be doing the parade because two boys in her class don't celebrate Halloween. I thought for sure she misunderstood her teacher and sent her off to school.

Now you know the story that she DIDN'T participate in the parade and Eric and I are ticked. We are tempted to file a complaint (sounds so formal) at the school because of it. I haven't done so yet partly because I am scared and partly because I am not sure if Shaylyn's was the only class to not participate...I am somewhat sure the older kids don't participate, but kids Shaylyn's age just don't understand. I also don't want to cause a situation with the teacher if she thought what she was doing was best.

But why should my daughter have to feel like she is being punished because of someone else's beliefs. But in a situation like this where most of the students do celebrate Halloween, something else needed to be done. Don't misunderstand me - I totally think those people have the right to believe what they will, but it should not handicap the rest of the world.

The parents could have kept those children home, or someone could have sat with the kids while the rest of the class participated. I just don't think it's fair that because my daughter got the crumb luck to be in a class with those students, she wasn't able to participate in something. Guess maybe I am just a bit overprotective or something.

Anyway, after the kids got home from school, we straightened up the house, had dinner and got all decked out to go trick-or-treating.


Eric had to work this year so I had to get all 4 kids ready and out the door. I forgot to light the pumpkins and decided against sticking the candy outside the door. I wanted to have some when we got home.

I so misjudged that. We have so much candy now, it's ridiculous. So any of you in the ward who's kids missed our house, send 'em on over.

We had a good night and I was glad that it was such a nice night (even with the rain). Nathaniel did great and decided to take a nap the whole time the other kids wanted to trick or treat. They lasted about 2 hours and they were done.

As soon as Lex walked in the door he dumped his candy out, this did not fly. We put it all back in his bag and I told him he could choose 3 pieces and then it was up and out of the way for the night. Shaylyn also had her candy dumped out, but she was counting hers! I think the total she came up with was 106 or something. I had to laugh that she was counting the candy.

All in all it was a good night, and when I went to bed - I fell asleep fast!
Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...