Aug 30, 2011

30 Days of Truth: Day 21

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DAY 21: WRITE ABOUT YOUR BEST FRIEND (NOT YOUR SIGNFIGANT OTHER) AND WHAT MAKES THEM SPECIAL

Well it was rude of them to exclude the signifigant other. Geez...We all know that my very best friend is Eric, so why did they have to specifically exlude them, huh?

Oh well. So the truth of the matter is this wasn't a hard choice. I have friends, but not really any that would be considered a 'best'. Besides Eric, my best friend is my little sister, Kaeloni. (Yes, my parents tried to find original names...)


Kaeloni is 10 years and 22 days younger than me. Normally that distance in age wouldn't make for an ideal situation for us to be best friends, but it happened for us.

We shared a room from the time Kaeloni was in a bed. She kept me up many a night with her wonderful storytelling and imagination. She prepared me for motherhood by waking me in the middle of the night to take her to the bathroom, or because she was having a nightmare. On one of our trips to the bathroom (We were in the basement, our bathroom was upstairs) I tripped over something in the family room and dropped her onto her head. She ended up with a slight concussion. I felt wonderful about that. One night she woke up screaming trying to save her friend.



Because of our age difference, she ended up making a great babysitter for me when I first had kids. My kids loved having her babysit and she was always so good with them - she still is. I've been so blessed to have her around and that we always lived close enough that she could babysit when I needed her to. Because we lived close she'd also just come over to hang out.

Kaeloni got pregnant at 16 and that was a major trial in her life. Because of what I went through when I was her age I was able to understand what she was going through a little better than most of the people around her. I was fortunate and didn't have to deal with a pregnancy at such a young age, but I did know what it was like dealing with my parents on the whole sex before marriage topic. She got married 3 months before her son was born. Therefore, we were both married with young kids and had that to bond on.


We've been close since all this went down. Because of our similar life experiences we could talk to each other without being judged for our actions or inactions. We are alike in a lot of ways, and in all the ways we are different I'm okay with. I never feel like I am being judged by Kaeloni and that's not the case with all of my siblings. Kaeloni's one of the only ones who was honestly excited when we told family about Ailey. I needed that. It then helped that she was only 1 month behind me with that pregnancy. Our little girls are so cute together and are both like their mommies already.

I'm so glad Kaeloni was able to move out around me. It's made our relationship better and it's been nice to have her close when I needed someone. I am sad that she's going to be moving again in the next few months. She'll still be close, but not AS CLOSE - which means less time together. BOO!


Anyway, I think I went a bit overboard...but that is my best friend and sister - Kaeloni!


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Aug 29, 2011

30 Days of Truth: Day 20

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I've got to be one of THE BIGGEST slackers/procrastinators in the world. I've been putting this post off for days because it's kinda dumb. But I'm finally getting to it, that should count for something.


DAY 20: DISCUSS YOUR FAVORITE MOVIE AND WHY IT'S SO SPECIAL TO YOU

Okay, so I tend to have a similar philosophy as my dad when it comes to movies. And that is something to the effect of "Why own a movie when you've already seen it. You know what's going to happen."

So yeah, I feel that way quite a bit - BUT I have been known to buy movies that I really, really liked. Usually though, it's Eric buying movies or me buying movies for the kids.

This topic is hard for me because I don't really have a "FAVORITE" movie. Instead, I tend to have a few that I like more than others, on any given day. So that being said here are my likes at the moment...

#1 - WISH UPON A STAR


This movie was so good from beginning to end. I just loved it....

Hahaha, okay not really. I only put this one in here because it was filmed at my High School my Sophomore year. It's kind of funny to realize that. And the fact that I've seen Kathryn Heigl up close and personal makes me laugh. Of course I never actually MET her, I just walked by her in the hall one day - and of course I had NO IDEA who she was!

Now seriously...

#2 - MAMMA MIA


I've just liked this movie from day one. I guess in some ways it just spoke to me and I love all the humor that's in it. The fact that it's a musical is even more entertaining to me. Then you throw in the fact that Eric got it for us to watch one day AND watched it with me - meant even more. I don't think I could ever get sick of this movie. Plus, Pierce Brosnan is in and he sings. He isn't the greatest singer - but he does okay and I actually enjoyed it.

#3 - MRS. DOUBTFIRE


I ♥ Robin Williams! I think this was the first movie I saw with him in it. I was pretty young and my older sister had either bought or rented it and we watched it. I loved the beginning when he is giving voice to the bird and he gets fired for sending a good message to kids. I also love the fact that he was desperate to stay connected with his kids and so he didn't stop at anything to be able to be with them. I love how he grows as a person as well and how his kids realize just how much they mean to their dad! Okay - Pierce Brosnan is in it as well - in a swimsuit at one point - and yeah, I may have a small crush on him. ;)

#4 - CLUE

I remember the first time I saw this movie that my Mom made it a huge deal. We went to the movie store, rented the video, stopped at the grocery store for candy and ice cream. Came home and we all huddled around the basement TV and watched Clue! I know I missed A LOT of innuendo's as a kid that I just laugh at now. This movie always makes me laugh. My older sister had CLUE on VHS and introduced my kids to it. So recently Tanis kept bugging me to get it. He really, really wanted our own copy of Clue. I found it for fairly cheap on Amazon and bought it. It's fun to share something that I first saw as a kid with my kids who are probably about the same age I was when I saw it.

#5 - STEEL MAGNOLIAS


This is one of those movies I haven't bought, yet. I watched this with my friend when I was probably a pre-teen. My friend was in love with the movie and was adament that she was going to name her kids after Shelby and her husband. (She didn't) But it is such a good movie and yes, very much a chic flick! It was fun to see Dolly Parton acting since I had only known her to be a singer. I also loved that she was a beautician as that's what I aspired to at that point in my life. I felt a lot like Darryl Hannah's character and really understood what she was feeling. It broke my heart with everything that happened to Shelby and how Grandma had to come pick up the pieces. So, it's one to watch when you need a good cry!


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Aug 27, 2011

A Little Girl Time

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Our ward's Fathers and Sons was last weekend, August 19th & 20th. Eric really wasn't sure he wanted to go camping again - seeing as how we'd gone so much in so little time, but because all his buddies in the ward were going, he decided to go. I wondered if he'd take Nathaniel cause he still isn't potty trained. (I know, I know...But I attempted to start potty training in the summertime - BAD IDEA! All he wanted to do was play) But, to my delight Eric took Nataniel with him. That meant it was just the girls and I.

I knew I wanted to make the best of the weekend with my girls and actually 'do' something instead of just sitting around at home. First of all I decided Ailey needed some bangs. She looked horribly like an orphan child when I didn't get around to doing her hair. Plus I just felt bad that her hair was always hanging in her eyes. I know it annoys me.

So we got Ailey some bangs. She did great sitting in the chair for some stranger. I wish I had taken my camera, but I forgot. I still can't believe how different and more grown up she looks. At times it really makes me sad.

After the bang cut we went to a movie. I let Shaylyn choose and the choice was really only between Harry Potter and The Smurfs. I didn't really want to go a movie with Ailey in the first place, and I think I kind of steered Shaylyn in the direction of Smurfs because Ailey would tolerate it better.

We got popcorn and drinks and enjoyed our movie. It was cute enough, but probably not ever one that would be my favorite. Ailey actually sat really well through the whole thing and only got antsy about 10 minutes before it was over. I think that was awesome for a 1 year old. Ailey liked the Smurfs, but would snuggle up close anytime Gargamel came onto the screen. She loved the cat and laughed when the cat did something funny. I think Shaylyn enjoyed the show as well.

After the movie we went to dinner at Olive Garden. It's one of my faves - I don't know why, it just is. I had a bit of an awkward moment as a bunch of ladies from the ward came at the same time sans kids. It was obvious they had a group thing going on. They did invite me to join them and I declined at first, but the one lady wouldn't really let me. After talking to the hosting staff though it would've been another half hour to find a table for all of us and I decided that would be mean to make them wait for another half hour. Plus, I would've totally felt like I was intruding - after all, I wasn't even invited in the first place...

Anyway the girls and I had a fun time eating. Shaylyn was in a silly mood and just kept making me laugh. Ailey had her first experience of drinking out of a straw and she did awesome! Ailey had to eat some of my food and she made a wonderful mess, but at least she ate.



After dinner we went home. Ailey went to sleep shortly after we got home and Shaylyn and I stayed up and watched some episodes of Medium on Netflix until I decided I couldn't keep my eyes open anymore and headed to bed.

In the morning we took a trip to IKEA. I wanted to find a small desk thing for the kids' laptop to keep in the kitchen. Something so it looked nice, even though it's in the kitchen. I also found a cute little light to go in the girls room. We had a nice lunch and once again Ailey ate my meal. We came home and were able to relax for an hour or so before our boys returned.

I felt bad I spent so much money when the boys were just 'camping', but hey - I made the most of the time with my girls and we had fun. I can't wait for next year...

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Aug 25, 2011

Because We Love Her...

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So my sweet Mother In Law had a birthday earlier this month. I always like to give her something with meaning or something of use. This year I was sick for almost the whole week before her birthday and was sick on her birthday. Luckily by Sunday I was completely better so we were able to have her birthday party.

On Saturday I got to work getting her birthday present together. I decided to do the 'song frame' things that I did for our siblings for Christmas. I had a hard time thinking of a song, but when I asked Eric for his opinion, he gave me the perfect song.

Now I only have the saved file picture - even though I made a nice plaque type thing for her gift. I had to wrap it on Sunday after church and because I had been puked on by the sweetest 2 year old boy, my only thoughts after church were to get changed ASAP and get the present wrapped...Getting a picture of the completed gift went out the window...



I decided that just giving her the plaque wouldn't be enough. She just HAD to hear the song as well. At first we were just going to find the YouTube video of it and play it for her, but then I had the idea to make a video with pics of her boys growing up and I tried to match the picture with the words in the song. It worked out so much better than I thought it would.

My Mother in Law LOVED the video. She watched it over and over again. Eric even had to get it onto her new phone (Gift from Greg and his girlfriend) so that she could take it to work the next day to share with all her coworkers. I never expected the video to go over as well as it did, but it made me so happy to know that she LOVED it.

She may now hate me for sharing it on my blog, but I think it's hilarious and such a good song for mom's...Plus, I get to share pictures of Eric as an ornery little kid! Enjoy!!!








Aug 24, 2011

Back To The Daily Grind

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Ugh, I hate school starting again. I always do and it always seems like it comes way too soon. Then there's the list of things you planned to do that didn't get done and then I feel like a failure as a Mom. Oh well. There's always next summer, right?

So on August 17th, the kids got to go to the school and check out class lists. As a kid I LOVED that day. We never knew exactly what day the lists were going to be posted so for two weeks or so before school started we took daily bike rides down to the school. I hated people telling me who my teacher was before I had a chance to look - so I took my kids early in the morning. Well, early for me - it was like 10:00. ;)




Lex has a couple kids in his class from last year, but doesn't really have any 'friends' in his class. Shaylyn has quite a few kids from last year as well, though both of her good friends moved and her 'boyfriend' is in another class. Tanis really lucked out this year and has a whole group of boys from the ward in his class and his 'girlfriend' is also in his class which made him happy.

School started yesterday. I would've posted about it yesterday, but I had to go grocery shopping. That's one positive thing about school - I can go grocery shopping with 2 kids instead of 5.

The kids were all thrilled to go back to school. Lex kept saying the night before, "I can't WAIT for tomorrow." I'm glad they're still young enough to enjoy school. I think Shaylyn's the only slightly reluctant one and that's because school can get boring for her.

I got up early yesterday morning and actually made breakfast. I usually just make them fend for themselves with cereal or a poptart. Then we got everyone dressed in their new duds and took the yearly pictures. I got the idea for the fingers representing the grade from my cousin. I think it's an awesome idea, just wish I would've had it earlier.








Nate and Ailey didn't mind the kids leaving. This was much better than last year. Last year Nathaniel got so upset when the kids walked off down the sidewalk to school. He actually started screaming and crying. It was sad.

This year though the little kids were able to play video games without the older siblings bugging them. Okay, so Nate was playing - Ailey was attempting. Mariokart can be hard when you're 1!


The kids were still all smiles when they got home from school. Costco had supplied all the kids in the school with a new backpack. (Not that my kids needed them...) Everyone had a good day. I got to work on all the 'homework' that the parents get on the first day and always enjoy doing it. It was a good day and I think Tanis was super blessed to get the teacher he got. I was reading through this teacher's disclosure document and these parts stood out to me:

* "... points will be rewarded more for effort than they will for quantity."
* "I never have been, nor will I ever be, a teacher who gives a grade blindly based on test and assignment performances. Students are more than the results that they produce on paper."
* " Our nation has become so concerned about how individuals look on paper that we hardly see them as individuals any more. Students see this in us and they learn very quickly to become apathetic. They need to know that they are VALUED as a PERSON and not as a STATISTIC."
* " They only way to fail in my class is to simply not try."

Tanis has some difficulties in school. He always has. I've been impressed with the teachers who have noticed this and have helped him out the best way they knew how. However, he doesn't get the decent grades in some subjects because of it. I am glad he's been put with a teacher that takes a look at the student. Tanis may not be as quick as other students, but he definitely tries - I am glad that will be noticed.

Anyway I'm excited for this year for the kids, even though I am sad they won't be home all day anymore. I guess I'm one of those crazy moms. Eric even made fun of me for being sad school was starting again...

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30 Days of Truth: Day 19

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I've been avoiding this post for a week or so now. Mainly because I couldn't think of anything I wanted to share with the public that wasn't EXTREMELY personal. (There has been something that I could've shared for this, but I'm not comfortable doing so in such a public forum). My life hasn't really been all that difficult. I did pick something, it's the best I could come up with, but it's nothing profoundly shocking or anything...Read on...

DAY 19: SOMETHING THAT SHOOK YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM TO IT'S CORE (A BIG DISSAPPOINTMENT IN YOUR LIFE)

See what I mean? Nothing has really shaken my belief system to it's core. But I did decide to go with my cousin's suicide. Yes, I've mentioned him quite a bit before and it may be getting old - but it's what fits best with this topic.


So it wasn't just the fact that Greg killed himself, when he seemed so grounded. It wasn't all the media that was put into his suicide or any of that stuff - what shook my belief system is the question of 'what now'?

Being a member of the LDS faith we're taught that suicide is WRONG. Okay, so maybe wrong is a bit strong of a word - but my point is we're taught that it's not a good thing to do. Great, so we understand that - but lots of people still do it, so what then?

Are they forever 'cast out' of heaven? Yes, I know that's a bit extreme and I know it's not as cut and dry as that. It was just a real concern of mine that my cousin wouldn't be with his eternal family anymore and things along that line.

It's my opinion that God looks into situations and what drove people to kill themselves and he will judge accordingly.

But the not knowing EXACTLY what will happen/has happened is difficult for me and has shook my belief system quite a bit. So there you have it.

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Aug 17, 2011

Ah, The Great Outdoors

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So, when I was little I remember going camping with my family almost every summer. I even remember one year when my dad took all the kids by himself because my mom was either very pregnant or just had a baby. That was an odd camping trip. We wore shorts and tank tops to sleep. Maybe we were at the Sand Dunes or something - I really don't remember and I am totally digressing here.

Anyway, so as we got older we tried to go at least once as a whole big family. We managed that for a number of years, but then as it goes with everything - life got in the way.
I wasn't going to let that stop us. I've told Eric that I want to go camping at least once every summer. Well this year we ended up going TWICE within 3 weeks and Eric and the boys will be headed out this weekend again for Fathers and Sons!

Our first trip was what is becoming an annual trip with our family friends, the Wards. We branched out a little bit this year and invited another family to come with us - the Wildings. I haven't had much interaction with the Wildings, but Eric does stuff with the Dad all the time. The kids are all about the same age as well.

The W's headed out Thursday afternoon, July 27, but we had to wait until Eric got home from work as he didn't have a whole lot of time off. He did leave work around 3, but he had to stop at the store for our groceries while I finished getting everyone/everything packed up.

We got out of the house around 6 and it was about an hour drive to the campground. We were met by the W's and they all helped us out to get all set up and situated. We had a quick dinner of hot dogs and by this time it was about 10. I decided I was shot for the night and headed to bed with the kids.

One by one the kids drifted off to sleep, all except Ailey. Ailey didn't want to go to sleep. I finally got her to sleep by about midnight and Eric finally came to the tent around 1:00. He was a good 'neighbor' and stayed up visiting.

We all slept pretty well and woke up well and revived in the morning. We took our time in the morning having breakfast and around 1:00 we decided to head to the lake. The kids had an awesome time playing around in the water and our friends had rented a canoe that I think everyone but me took a ride on.















We had a late lunch by the lake and then it started sprinkling, so we decided we better head back to the campsite as the other families had things to get ready for dinner. The kids then had fun playing around and goofing off. The men headed off to their 'Man Cave Tent' for a few rounds of the Magic card game. The wives were trying to visit and take care of babies. Ailey kept running to the road, so I spent that time running around chasing her.


Around 7:00 or so, Heather Ward decided she'd take a few of the kids and the dogs for a walk around the lake. This is when we discover that the 3 littlest mobile boys are missing. One from each family. That was two 4 year olds missing and my little 3 year old. Heather decided to still take the other kids and look around the lake and along the way for the little guys. Yvonne Wilding took out on foot walking around the campground searching. I stayed at the campground watching Ailey and one of the Wilding's kids who chose not to go for the walk. Yvonne came back and hadn't found them.

Both Yvonne and I then headed down to the guys to ask them for their help and to explain what's going on. The guys IMMEDIATELY stop what they are doing and Eric told me his heart kind of stopped as well. It was getting dark and was going to get cold. Nate had taken his shoes off and didn't have a jacket on yet either.

Doug Ward heads off walking around the campground. Eric and Anthony Wilding take off in Wildings van driving around each loop in the campground. Doug comes back and couldn't find the boys, Eric and Anthony get back and haven't had any luck either. I tell them to maybe check around the lake in case Heather found them.

In the meantime Yvonne had gone down to the lake and wasn't able to find Heather nor the boys. They then decided that Yvonne will take one half of the lake and Eric will trek the other half. I was stuck back at the campsite not sure what was going on, but waiting on pins and needles.

A bit later I see Eric getting pulled by Wilding's dog, carrying Nate and I think he even had Flower in another hand. He was quite talented getting all three of those back to us. So yes, the boys were found and they were safe. They were actually found before Heather even left the campsite and she told one of the older kids to come back and tell us they had them, but it was Shaylyn and she just yelled, "We found them! They were at the bathroom!"

I had heard that, but didn't know it came from her. The campsite was full so it could've came from any kid in that area. Thankfully everyone was safe and it turned out well, but it was certainly a very scary time.

We then all had our individual dinners and got the kids to bed. Nate had fallen asleep on the picnic table because he was so tired from his adventures and the other kids had no problem going to sleep on their own.


The adults and a few of the babies (yes, Ailey) sat around the campfire visiting. The Wildings taught us a fun song that Ailey actually ended up loving the chorus so much that it put her to sleep. I just had to whisper "Ooh la la, Ooh la la, Ooh la" and she was out! We then played a fun game and just had fun being the adults for awhile. We called it a night around 1.

I woke up the next morning not feeling great and just wanted to get out of there, but Eric had other plans and played Magic most of the morning. Yes, I'll admit I got a little ornery. We got everything packed up around 1:00, decided we'd better get some group pics before we left and we all departed and called it good.

It was a fun weekend and I felt bad I was in such a bad mood most of the time. Not sure what was going on with me, but nothing I can do about it now.






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Two weekends later, August 5 and 6, Eric had a work retreat campout. We debated about going all week. Even the day before we weren't sure we were going to be going as Eric wasn't feeling well. Our tent's zipper had broken at the previous campout so we'd have to borrow a tent from Eric's parents which he wasn't sure he wanted to do either.

Well the Friday came and Eric decided he really wanted to go. He had a work buddy that had reserved a spot who said that we could use it and Eric felt bad if we didn't.

So we got all packed up and were out of the house by about 1:00. Again it was a short travel time to the mountain and we found the campsite fairly easily - but we so were NOT impressed with it. It was right next to a river (NOT GOOD FOR LITTLE KIDS - EVEN THOUGH I REALLY LIKE BEING BY RIVERS) and the only place for a tent was extremely rocky

We were supposed to be sharing the spot with Eric's buddy at work, but he didn't seem to be there. So we walked up to where we saw others from his work and found his buddy. This guy had decided to just bunk with someone else and so he allowed us to just use his reserved campsite. Talk about an awesome guy.

We went back to the campsite to set up camp. It took Eric FOREVER to figure out his Dad's tent and it was so hot that it was a lot of work. The kids were ornery and crazy and we were all pretty miserable. I had planned to have hot dogs for lunch, but Eric didn't feel like making a fire in 100* weather, so we opted for some healthy snacks since a good group dinner was only in 2 hours.

After eating we just sat and visited. It was so nice. Lex and Shaylyn went to go 'take a nap' in the tent, Tanis fell asleep in the camp chair and Ailey and Nate loved playing together in the dirt. Sometimes the slow in life is nice.




At 6:00 we went up to the group dinner and I finally got to meet all these people Eric works with. There are some interesting people, but some also very nice people and they were all very kind and good with our kids. One of the people Eric works with had a few little games set up like bean bag toss and a horseshoe type game with metal rings - they also had marshmallow guns.





Dinner was extremely yummy and there are some very talented people when it comes to cooking while camping. Eric and I had fun visiting with a few of his coworkers while the kids had fun whooping on a 40 year old kid with the marshmallow guns. It was a good night for us all. We headed back to our own campsite for S'mores and some family fun.



Well Eric decided to invite a coworker whose campsite was next to ours, who let us borrow A BUNCH of wood, come sit with us. I was a little annoyed, but it was still fun to visit with these people and they were so nice. They had an RV and invited the kids to come watch a movie. The kids all ran over, except for Ailey and I think Tanis.

When I got tired I went into the tent with Ailey and Eric went to get the kids. He was gone for quite awhile and I actually started dozing off. He came back and we got all the kids situated and got ready for sleep. Eric and I DID NOT sleep that night. There were rocks EVERYWHERE and Ailey and Nate took turns not wanting to sleep. It definitely was not the best campsite for a tent.
We woke up in the morning and decided to forego the work breakfast. We just packed up and decided to go for breakfast at IHOP. It was a good choice, except that we left Flower in the car with the windows rolled down enough for her to get air, but not enough for someone to break in.

However, we offended some person cause we came back out to the car to a note telling us that we were horrible dog owners and that we needed to roll the windows down more and we shouldn't have left our dog in the car while we ate a bunch of crap. And they were going to call Animal Services on us.

Okay, so maybe we shouldn't have left Flower in the car - but we weren't gone for longer than an hour and she was perfectly fine when we came back to the car. We tried to ignore the note and for the most part we did, but it did make me feel bad. That person used some very mean words and it made us feel awful.

Anyway, so those were our wonderful camping trips. Maybe next year we'll actually have a good experience when we go. ;)




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